What special places do you consider as “stepping stones” to making your life better right now?
“There are two paths you can go by, but in the long run there’s still time to change the road you’re on.” (Robert Plant, Stairway To Heaven song lyrics)
Stepping Stone – An event, experience, or opportunity that serves as a necessary and helpful step toward attaining a future goal.
During my self guided travels stateside and abroad, I’m usually open to consider following travel destination itineraries which leave some degree of uncertainty. A major reason why I make such spontaneous journey decisions usually involves serious consideration of potential self growth opportunities I perceive through my active sensory awareness at the time. With that goal in mind, during our westbound road trip stopover near Geneva, New York, I allotted a few hours vacation time to take a Sunday afternoon look at Sonnenberg Gardens State Historic Park along with its adjoining Victorian era mansion.
To begin my tour, I’d read that the Sonnenberg Gardens setting was originally planned as a honeymoon escape by wealthy New York City banker Frederick Ferris for his wife Mary in 1887 with ornately restored features of English, Italian and Japanese designs of striking shapes and colors. So making good use of the free estate map handed out at the visitor center, I thereupon followed a self guided path crossing though numerous entry/exit portals distinctly showcasing these diverse arrays of cultural representation that I so desired to see. In doing so, I thus observed that many of these bridges, pathways, staircases, towers, door passages and hallways I traversed on this day felt like meaningful “stepping stones” toward staying more mindful of a “now” presence in my daily life.
So I share the following photo set from this Sonnenberg estate visit in conjunction with some of these positive “stepping stone” thoughts of a “moment to moment” nature that happened for me on that occasion. They included 1) Avoid being in a hurry, (2) Breathe deeply, (3) Examine fully the smallest details, (4) Trust my emotions more, (5) Make facts matter, (6) Ask myself critical thinking questions, (7) Savor silent reflection.
Blog Source:
https://www.sonnenberg.org/about-us/historical-perspective-on-sonnenberg/


















I very much love your seven-step guide to approaching life and travel, as it can make such a big difference, especially the first one – avoid being in a hurry. I find that being in a hurry on vacation often ruins it by creating travel burnout, increased stress, and a lack of enjoyment, as the focus shifts from relaxation and connection to checking off a packed schedule. Thanks for sharing, and have a good day :) Aiva xx
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Rushing seems to be one of the biggest mistakes people do on a vacation! I would also add trying to pack in too much. For example I see people have a list of things they plan to do in a 3 day visit to Paris. I suggest not to even go. We have stayed a month and didn’t finish our to do list! Yes I understand most Americans only have two weeks off. So maybe stay somewhere for that amount of time and enjoy it.
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Ever so practical suggestions that I would fully expect from you . That one about packing is not necessarily done in the present moment
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Aiva- You’re correct Aida. Vacations should not be approached like a competitive task to just get things done.
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🥰🥰🥰
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That’s timely feedback. I wasn’t sure how this list would play out with my readers?
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What a beautiful place. I love all the naturalness about it.
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I found it odd Jacqui that this exquisite estate was located in the middle of nowhere.
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Really fascinating to read about the history behind Sonnenberg Gardens. I had no idea how much global inspiration went into the design.
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It’s a global world in travel Anna if one is willing to look for it like you and I successfully do.
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Wonderful 😘
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Sonnenberg Gardens looks peaceful. I’m such a fan of all the arched and rounded doorways in the house.
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Yes it’s those kind of details that I’m more frequently checking for these days for photo looks.
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these photos are wonderful, as is their attitude – I think it would be hard to leave
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I will never get there, but thanks to you I can feel the atmosphere of the place. Hugs from Nortg Sea coast.
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That’s very nice of you to say.
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I am wowed away
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