Looking Back To Me

How does history express who you are best?

“Those who do not look upon themselves as a link, connecting the past with the future, do not perform their duty to the world” (Daniel Webster)

I’ve been reading the latest novel, “How To Know A Person” by New York Times journalist David Brooks in the last few weeks since I attended his presentation at the 2023 Miami Book Fair.In so doing, I’ve taken a particular interest in the chapter “How Do Your Ancestors Show Up in your life?” His main point here argues that “our lives are a summation of the other lives that preceded us.” By logical extension then, I’ve received gifts of life from my cultural inheritors in the past so that I will become an inspiration for those in line who follow me. So I offer below some brief conclusions from history’s call about who I actually am as a person.

I am an Able Unifier

On my father’s inherited ancestry, I think of those rolling hills environs in Wales whereby sheep herders accompanied by their trustworthy dogs traditionally manage to move their flocks to woolen sheering mills in the countryside. In doing so, these oftentimes skittish behaving lambs would be trained to obediently follow each other as one group to their intended destination.

I too found my inherited ability to spread unity of action beneficial by teaching my students to cooperate each semester in small groups to complete major class assignments. More recently, I noticed similar satisfaction in spreading this aura of the concept of oneness through my practice of yoga and meditation.

I am a Knight Warrior

The small country of my Welsh family line also experienced its fair share of violent unrest throughout its history as over seven hundred battlefields and four hundred and twenty castles can now be identified across the land. Such frequent skirmishes happened during the classical Roman conquest period, through feudal medieval days of Viking, Norman, and Celtic invasion and more recently a result of Welsh efforts to politically secede from British control.

So in recollection of a battlefront spirit in my Welsh family history, I notice my strength of being well prepared as ever to defend against modern enemies who threaten my family, home, privacy rights, and personal possessions. Thus, my bold use of security technology exists here as one way I defeat spamming, phishing, password theft, and social media hate communications.

I am a Hopeful Innovator

I’ve always been bewildered about the human atrocities that have happened over several centuries to the country of Hungary on my mother’s ancestral side. I discovered for instance that at the conclusion of World War I, Hungarians lost more than two thirds of their country’s farmland. While in the aftermath of World War II to 1989, peasant farmers forcibly gave up ownership of their private lands and associated crop earnings to a Russian Communist state. Yet in spite of such Totalitarian aggression against the country people of Hungary, I also noticed that their daily life retained a spirit of hopefulness in their culture through creative expressions of Hungarian music, art, dance, folklore, and culinary pleasure.

In times of life stress, I similarly turn to the Hungarian spirit of creative indulgence to feel better about myself as I might play chess, plan a new travel itinerary or compose an original poem.

I am a Restless Wanderer

My grandparents on my mother’s side emigrated to the Cleveland, Ohio region with their family in the1920s during a time when thousands of Hungarians sought a better life of new economic opportunities in America to escape post war political upheaval. Although many of these immigrants were educated, offered skills and came from the middle class, they often dealt with rejection of their “Old World” cultural ways in moving around to places where available jobs were at. In the case of my grandfather, he arduously took jobs to selling household goods door by door to support his family then in this Northeast Ohio region.

In accordance with the primary focus of my Word Press blog to express views about the present moment of travel for the last five years, I too possess a Hungarian based spirit of being the restless wanderer. No doubt, I’m somewhat better off financially than my grandparents and am deeply thankful that I’m free to choose without fear where and when I wish to go.

I am a Rugged Individualist

I grew up as a child in the industrial hub of Akron. Ohio, Home to three powerful rubber factories of Firestone, Goodyear, and Goodrich throughout the twentieth century, this product acquired a particular importance for military tire production during the second World War. Yet in spite of the high demand for these jobs, the main culture of these factories dictated “blood, sweat, and tears” effort daily as each worker breathed rubber dust particles of toxic air conditions. Because tire workers also received little pay and benefits received their dangerous efforts, they were forced to strike in pursuit of desperate unionized efforts. In doing so, they risked losing their jobs.

I’ve faced racism “head on”as an inner city school teacher. I’ve hand washed acid soaked bottles and jugs on an assembly line at a local soft drink bottling company. I’ve loaded by forklift heavy grocery pallets on awaiting semi trucks at food delivery warehouses. I’ve managed the role of District Newspaper Manager for home delivery at odd, late night hours to pay for my tuition in college. This job history thus demonstrates a cultural influence in Ohio of pursuing hard work my way in tough conditions.

“Here We Go Brownies, Here We Go!”

How would you describe a great passion affecting you throughout your entire life?

“The power is between your ears. The power is in your heart.” (Jim Brown)

Think back to your entire life and try to identify some events that have driven you to unconditionally embrace the “ups and downs” of your human condition. Recall those unforeseen past events that popped up to inspire thoughts of happiness while alternatively noticing those times of adversity that most shaped the strength of your heartfelt soul. With 2024 soon to arrive, what expectations could you also make that this source of inner and/or outer driven passion would remain a strong motivator of your decision making process? In my case, it’s vital to express the importance of being a fanatical Cleveland Browns supporter throughout my entire life. So allow me to cite a few reasons why this violent game of NFL football played by a team with a little elf insignia made such a “big deal” to me?

It started in my childhood in Northeast Ohio, when I attended my first Browns game at the cavernous arena of old Cleveland Stadium. On this momentous day, a young fullback named Jim Brown moved his sleek body around the football field seemingly with little effort as opposing defenders failed to tackle him on numerous occasions. When they did manage to bring him down, he’d slowly rise from the ground with little emotion and return to the huddle to produce his next spectacular run. You might imagine then the lesson impressed upon on my curious mind that day to work hard in life with solitary determination to succeed.

So when I moved to South Florida as a teenager, my heart longed for this former hometown team, the Cleveland Browns, one of my only living connections to a happy childhood past in this city. I tried out for the high school football team being undersized, yet aspired to be the next gifted wide receiver like Paul Warfield or Gary Collins. I attended winning Miami Dolphins games at times stubbornly wearing the latest Cleveland Browns hat and jersey attire. I vigorously collected mounds of statistics about my favorite Browns players like Bernie Kosar and Ozzie Newsome before “Fantasy Football” play online ever existed.

It also happened in my freshman year of college at the University of South Florida that I fortunately met my future wife Ruth in the dorms during the inaugural showing of “Monday Night Football”. How coincidental it seemed then that my beloved Cleveland Browns were playing the New York Jets when I met this girl from Long Island who actually liked football. For I could definitely “blather” to her at length about my Browns passion and she would willingly listen. As time went on, her cousin would move to Cleveland, marry an avid Browns fan and whereupon graciously open up new opportunities for me to visit my former hometown for fun yet challenging Browns game experiences. In this regard, I vividly recall enduring zero weather conditions with her during a Browns double overtime playoff win and walking miles to the stadium to see a Monday night game thriller.

When the Cleveland Browns unceremoniously left town to become the Baltimore Ravens in 1995, I sadly mourned not having a team to follow. Three years of personal loss would follow until a new Browns team would return to Cleveland in 1999. Unfortunately, my passion for the Browns would again be severely tested as this latest franchise version failed miserably throughout a twenty three year period. Over this time, I would witness a losing team led by thirty six different quarterbacks and numerous head coaches fired. Yet I could not “shake thoughts” of a winning tradition of Browns football forty years past and remained stubbornly loyal to the team by vicariously watching many of their games on TV throughout the struggle. Taking advantage of a more flexible time schedule in early retirement, I would also travel overseas to witness a Browns game in Tottenham, England. 

In December, 2023, my Cleveland Browns fortunes suddenly turned for the better. A seasoned quarterback with championship game experience named Joe Flacco who’d previously posted an 18-3 winning record versus the Browns was brought in to play for them at the end of this season. Four straight wins later, the Browns now qualified for the 2023 NFL playoffs. With an elite leader at QB, a top notch defense and a savvy front office, this latest version of the Browns has a legitimate chance to play in the coveted Super Bowl for the first time in the team’s illustrious history. Do you think my toleration of so much emotional pain and suffering for this team has been worth it? You bet it has!

Colombia’s Avian Excitement

How do you typically give notice to the behavior of birds?

“To see birds, it is necessary to become a part of the silence.” (Robert Lynd)

Let’s face it. When I’m on a mega cruise ship containing thousands of tourists roaming around aimlessly, the thought often crosses my mind about where and how to seclude myself in silence whenever I can. But how might Ruth and I best go about doing this on this present Caribbean vacation? Of course getting an early start each day before the masses arrive at mealtimes and lounging decks made good sense for sure. But more creatively, what about more selectively booking excursions off the boat imaging a free flight of birds migrating to a quiet place of refuge?

This attitude of soaring in avian-like fashion best exemplified why I agreed to dutifully arose at 6:00 am. on day five of this adventure time to experience a half day outing at the National Colombian Aviary outside Cartagena, Venezuela. For there we could we likely savor those avian species accustomed to the low lying coastal shoreline who feed in these heavily flooded areas of mangrove swamps largely absent of people.

How liberating it felt then amid the silence of jungle to hear only the randomness of bird calling to pass the time. Getting close up to each tropical creature in this federally protected environment further enhanced the sensory solitude of this experience as I more insightfully imagined what their various chirping , cawings, and screechings might actually mean.

So anytime of day, it certainly makes sense for me to take more time at home to just gaze out the windows to take my mind off the incessant urban noise and just listen quietly to the birds. Enjoy my next set of cruise photos.

Feeling Jamaican Way

How does the Caribbean island flow of life appeal to you?

“Such a natural mystic, blowing through the air.” (Bob Marley)

If I could summarize in two words what best describes why Caribbean cruising appeals to me, I’d utter strongly “Go Natural.” For I cope with so many others each day at home in South Florida in what I call unnatural survival confusion. How refreshing then that our first stop in Falmouth Bay, Jamaica seemed to be the ideal antidote in the tropics to reassess such an urban crisis of the mind.

Consider then how this beautiful island shrowded by “Blue Mountain” mysteries and lonely Caribbean shorelines evokes for me a much calmer state of mind. Or perhaps, it’s my admiration for the chosen dialect of many “locals” who speak in plain talk about making life less complicated than it is. Such common phrases as “No Problem”, Ya Mon”, and “Bless Up” thus resonate with me as a way to simplify decision making, worry less and just be myself at all time. Under such casual circumstances, I struggle less understanding for instance why in Jamaica a popular Catholic Church lies next to a beer factory, to what extent looking black or white matters, or how risky it might be to try natural herbs from the jungle to ease pain in my aching knees.

Perhaps most of all, the issue of unity comes to mind when I reflect on Jamaica’s authentic influence on my life. For as I gaze wondrously at how life here flourishes with so much diversity of plant, animal, and humankind here, isn’t it more natural then for us to similarly co–exist peacefully in “One Love” as Bob Marley once uttered in a soulful reggae song? Enjoy my latest photos.

Soaring On Boring

When life gets boring, what can you do to change this perspective?

“Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes including you.”(Anne Lamott)

Have you given much thought lately about how to deal with those idle times in travel when you just feel really bored? What are you usually doing for example during those potentially long wait times at the gate when your flight takeoff’s been noticeably delayed? Or what about those seemingly endless sea days on cruises when there’s nothing but ocean to surround your view? Furthermore, does your attention span drift off in dullness as you sit in a car as a driver or passenger too long each day on road trips?

Maybe it’s time then to “shake matters up” a bit during such frustrating slowdowns and get more creative to productively pass the time. For in fact, a recent poll by the American Psychiatric Association (APA) found that engaging in more feel-good vibes of creative action can directly improve your physical and mental health at anytime.

No, that does not mean you should just text away or chatter with your friends on social media when you’re feeling bored. But what you choose to do creatively as I’ve often found fun to do makes for a more positive handling of these tediously challenging, travel moments.

1. Listen and sing along to the lyrics of some of your favorite radio and streaming enabled songs.

2. Act like a kid again and create simple mind games with words and/or numbers.

3. Draw, doodle or brainstorm in writing about a topic you love.

4. Create something real with your hands like a blossoming paper flower, funky neck pendant or a colorful holiday ornament from scratch.

5. Use silence to inspire short spurts of meditation, visualization, or chanting to quiet your mind chatter.

6. Dial up your favorite podcast to arouse a cathartic release of a laugh, or cry.

7. Playfully interact with animals feeling how they view the present moment.

8. Utilize special effect tools  on your I-Phone Camera to make your photos more visually appealing. 

In my lengthy history of travel, I’ve often found there’s oftentimes nothing to do but wait in potential boredom for a transportation or booking task to proceed. Yet I’ve usually created beforehand a positive mindset strategy to think and act creatively for experiencing these slowdown waiting experiences as the present moment calls. Observe then the creative potential in the following photo set taken from our recent travels.

Let’s Go – I’m Ready!

Share five things you’re good at. (Jet Pack Prompt – 12/4/23)

“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose” – (Dr. Seuss)

My current Jet Pack blog primarily features personal recollections of the present moment in travel. So it’s quite clear that the following assets I possess as a person enhance efficient use of my time, energy, and finances where and when I wish to go. So consider the five examples demonstrating these qualities below taken from recent roadtrips. 

Strong Defensive Outlook – As the old adage goes “it’s better to be safe than sorry” when it comes to location time and place. Witness the quick decision, for instance, I once made to evacuate a rustic lodge location when experiencing first sight of a raging wildfire spreading nearby in Granby, Colorado.

Ability to Improvise – For each vacation, I typically consider, various time and distance routing itineraries that can be reasonably accomplished. For example, notice whether a clockwise or counterclockwise plan would have best covered the circled destination items in the map below pre-planned for a recent road trip last year.

Keen Situational Awareness – It’s rarely enough for me to just show up and read about past history as it supposedly happened. For I like to feel the sensation of living those times instead using all of my senses. Notice the awkward heaviness then that I experienced in holding a real musket used in the Revolutionary War period in Charleston, South Carolina. 

Striving For Inner Peace – Wherever I am at home or abroad I prioritize showing up for serenity when I can. In this Northern California photo taken in a friend’s backyard, I could clearly envision this spiritual backdrop as an impetus for my yoga and meditation practice.

Healthful Habits In Travel – Why pack on the pounds as I stay idly in the car on those long road trip vacations? Instead I prefer to take time to get out and about on some walking paths around towns to allow me to make wiser food choices than just eating out all the time. Witness then the variety of healthful choice options I considered then during a visit to a weekly Farmer’s Market in San Luis Obispo, California.

Fresh Immigrant Intentions

How does one’s dedication to work hard impact your life?

“Most things are more rewarding when you break a sweat to get “um.”
(Matthew McConaughey)

Whenever I think about the boundless freedom offered in this country, I must accordingly consider what degree of “blood sweat, and tears” it took for our ancestors to achieve that objective. You see we are all ultimately immigrants over time when you consider our historic family line of descendants, many of which once crossed vast oceans or challenging land terrains under difficult circumstances to find new life meaning. So it’s nonsensical to me why so many today narrowly define their Americanism in an exclusionary and thus non-multicultural manner. As for myself, I embrace the diversity of South Florida where I live every day knowing that this cultural transition to new life in America to be hard for newcomers to handle.

So with that thought in mind, I suggest taking a close look at immigrant adjustment around your neighborhood. Who’s up early on weekdays making sure that those impressive lawns and shrubbery are shapely cut? Who’s safely driving the public school bus for children on busy highways and maintaining order? Who does your young son or daughter successfully team up with in soccer game play? Who’s running around busily taking orders at your local Mexican or Chinese restaurant? Who’s tediously picking those fresh vegetables and fruits that you love to eat? Who’s patiently attending to the elderly at a nearby senior living center? Who’s carefully drawing blood” at your next physical checkup?

We earned our right to be free. So why not let these hardworking newcomers do the same? Take a look at a few murals from my road trip travels that might offer some hope in moving immigration matters in the right direction.

Feeling My Best Before Travel

Describe a past experience in your life that makes you feel best about yourself today?

“Don’t cry because it’s over; smile because it happened.” (Dr. Seuss)

The idea of traveling seems to be a “second nature” habit with me as I think back to the ease of getting away from my Fort Lauderdale home in various ways. I mean how would you react if you lived in close proximity like me to a major International airport and bustling cruise terminal as well as in close access to several high speed expressways tempting me to move in the northerly direction out of Florida each day? Picture as well my residency in South Florida almost always devoid of seasonal extreme where I can get outside most days in the sunshine to just casually dream of the freedom to play anywhere and anytime I want.

So you might say I feel best about myself during those moments of travel anticipation that I’ve frequently experienced preceding each trip. For whether it’s a cruise, flight, or road trip, my positive attitude soars, thinking in those times of an easy escape from the subtropics into pleasure filled fantasy wherever I will next be. To mark these hopefully informal occasions, I often dress down for comfort as much as possible for ease of departure in a loosely worn lumberjack shirt, matching overalls, and sturdy walking shoes. During these pre- vacation times, it’s reassuring to know as well that our trip returns will become easier,  knowing we have steady condo neighbors nearby, willing to stay in touch with us by phone and take in our mail.

I must admit, however, that the hours before we embark on any of our vacations seem typically busy with packing, finance, and health related decisions to make. But foremost in my mind then, I’m “flying high” just living in the ecstatic moment, knowing that I will soon fulfill my lifelong love of travel again. So as we soon go off our next Caribbean cruise vacation on “Princess” in early December, I hope to share some of this latest excitement with you from Jamaica, The Caymans, Panama, Costa Rica and Colombia when I can.

Let Literary Sunshine In

How do you feel when surrounded by some good books?

“In a good bookroom you feel in some mysterious ways that you are sorting the wisdom contained in all books through your skin, without even opening them?”

(Mark Twain)


If you like to read, what can be better than coming on down to sunny South Florida to hear your favorite authors read from their most recent books? In doing so, you might even excite yourself further amid the multicultural stew that exists in this ever changing region. I’m talking here about the November 2023 Miami Book Fair, one of the largest gatherings of national and international book exhibitors in the United States.

Know then as former Reading and English professor, I regularly attended this annual event at Miami Dade College Wolfson Campus to enhance my teaching efforts with the fair’s timely works of literature to inspire my students to embrace reading books as a lifelong endeavor. I sometimes found time as well to converse “one on one” with authors about their writing works along the “Street Fair” grounds located in the heart of downtown Miami. In addition to  book talk activities, I also found spontaneous excitement in sampling new tastes in international food, witnessing creative performances of art, dance, and music as well as exchanging views with other serious book lovers.

So in the photo set below, check out the lineup of author talks that I attended this past weekend with some brief comments about their featured books.

David Brooks – “How To Know A Person”

The talented writer of New York Times and PBS television fame offered fresh hope through storytelling about how to engage in better conversations with kind regard for others. His timely advice included looking someone in the eye, listening more and posing thoughtful questions in order to see something larger in them to thus provide a better version of ourselves.

Maggie Smith – “You Could Make This Place Beautiful”

Writing this latest collection of poems became a powerful tool for Maggie to overcome her emotional trauma of juggling time as a full time Ohio mother and ambitiously driven writer. This strong stand she stated to overcome her serious depression state then provided  strong support for believing in “why can’t we have it all?

James McBride – “The Heaven on Earth Grocery Store”

With relaxing ease, Mr. McBride spoke about his past experiences working with kids in challenging institutional settings. He noted how these children of “special needs” who somehow managed to survive in such crisis filled environments inspired the chosen characters for this latest book.

Carl Hiasson – “Wrecker”

Mr. Hiasson’s past career as a Miami Herald journalist dictated later on that he’d expend great effort to research the settings and characters of his humorously entertaining novels. In talking candidly with this receptive crowd, he thus revealed some startling insights about how issues of racism, environmentalism, and illicit drug trade during a lengthy stay in Key West, Florida inspired him how to write his latest book.

Dave Barry – “Swamp Story”, Adam Mansbach – “The Golem of Brooklyn”, Ben Purkert – The Men Can’t  Be Saved”

The always satirically funny writer highlighted a three person panel with other humorists that proved to be a “wild wacky, and witty” affair. Imagine each of them cracking jokes about their recent literary efforts centered around scary encounters with python monsters, time traveling chiropractors, and a giant Jewish protector called a “Golem.”

Heather Cox Richardson and Tracy K. Smith – “Democracy Awakening – Notes on the State of America”

The assault on America’s Democracy from a historical perspective sparked interesting conversations between the Heather, the syndicated columnist/History professor and Tracy, an accomplished poetess and English professor then. But most interested me seemed to be their differing views about how their writing efforts came about by either conventionally planning the various writing drafts logically step by step or intuitively shifting to unpredictable immediacy of the present moment.

T.C. Boyle – “Blue Skies”

Just one look at this lanky looking hipster and you can sense he’s all about expressing “anti- establishment” viewpoints about materialistic American society today. So I observed then an emotional talk about his latest “Eco- Thriller” to be a fierce attack on why humans appear unwilling and unable to cope with “climate change” and “global warming”, which he felt would result in the ultimate destruction of our planet.

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