How much time do you spend trying to make your life perfect?
“The pursuit of perfection often impedes improvement.”(George Will)
I rode my bike on this crisp South Florida morning around our new condo complex looking for the perfect place to rest. I settled for a park bench on a gently rising ridge overlooking an old oak tree strand. But then after a few minutes sitting there, it occurred to me that I enjoyed looking at this habitat’s imperfections as some trees stood flimsily crooked and others lay seasonally dead. Taking wild nature’s cue on this matter then, I wrote the following poem.
PERFECTION’S UNDOING
I gaze upward nightly in awe of magical cosmic dust
But often fail to notice steady neighbors I can trust.
I descend far below to fear earth shaking heat
But miss kicking fires out just under my feet
I look back to mimic time’s eventful chains
But rarely gather up human losses or gains
I feel passion ahead hoping future utopia arises
But ignore subtle smiles as intrinsic prizes
Stop trying to struggle surpassing the status quo
Let inner peace grow to enjoy life’s flow
Beautiful poem. Perfection is so subjective and overrated anyway.
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It’s stressful sure. Thanks for contributing here.
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This is such a wonderful read, Jim Many people have problems dealing with the idea of perfection and it can often scare us into not doing anything at all! This fear stops us from starting so many things – from starting our business, launching a new product, telling people about what we do… and the list continues. Perfection is not something you can hold onto – though you may experience a perfect moment, it is never lasting. And aiming for perfection will always fail – it’s better to aim for excellence (or even, sometimes, good enough!).
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Overperfection in my life has led to O.C.D. problems at times. Since we moved to a calmer pace , I’ve found it easier to do what this blog intended.
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well written perfection to me is out of my reach. Take it as it is and enjoy life
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I would welcome doing exactly this in your Outback again.
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I agree. Beautifully expressed. I feel if something is too beautiful it becomes boring. Imperfections add to the character.
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The same goes with symmetry to me. I like asymmetry.
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After retiring from 35 years in public schools, I so appreciate letting go of perfectionism. I had five classes of middle school kids. I would often change my lesson period by period to get it closer to perfection. I’d even redo worksheets/ labs for the periods after lunch. Retirement has been blissful without lesson plans.
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I understand as a past teacher myself anti paper backlash. Thanks for sharing your viewpoint.
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i stopped trying,
they keep lying
we keep relying
and folks are still dying
i stand here crying
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Choose your war on this on, Milena
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Beautiful message, and much needed in today’s world✨
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